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I am out on the back porch this morning listening to my kids play X-Men in the backyard. They follow each other around making up stories about how they have super powers, calling each other by their superhero names and destroying evil.
It’s great to be able to take the time and watch my kids as they are growing up. These years don’t last long and I’m so blessed to be able to be here and have the time to listen to them playing and being imaginative.
Right now I’m unemployed and I think a lot of times people view that as only a negative thing, but right now it is a blessing. I’ve never been able to spend so much time with my wife and kids. I think many times in life we waste so much of our time and energy worrying about money and success that we forget how beautiful life truly is and how precious one moment can be.
It’s been a few weeks since I turned in my resignation here at AELC. This was probably the toughest decision I’ve had to make in a career yet in my life and it remains difficult even though the decision has been made. I don’t really need to get into all the details of why and how we were led to this decision, but the fact or should I say truth that I would like to communicate is that we simply felt led. I know a lot of times in life we come to cross roads and aren’t sure where to go, but if we can cling to our faith and relationship with Christ, seeking His direction instead of merely informing Him of ours, we can have faith that he will show us the right step. (Mind you, that’s not a guarantee you can’t take the wrong step, just that He will show you the right one. Your job is to seek and listen.).
Nicole and I spent hours in prayer and fasting while coming to this conclusion and before we took the step we had a peace about it, and that was really our greatest confirmation. Not just that we felt ok with whatever happens, but that we knew that God is in control of our lives if we surrender to Him. That is peace, knowing you are in God’s hands and not your own. The fact remains that we will be completely unemployed as of July 1st, and by some of the opinions of folks around us we are completely nuts. (Namely for the following reasons: we have a baby on the way, we voluntarily gave up pay and security, and it may not look great on a resume to have a period of unemployment, oh and I won’t have insurance for a while.) But we feel peace, and for that I would not trade anything in the world. We are sure that God will use us, we are definite that He has called us to a life of ministry, and we are certain that all our bills will be paid and all little tummies full. These things we have faith in and peace about, the rest God will just have to show us one step at a time.
I think what frustrates me the most is that as Christians, we are quite frankly stuck in materialism. Questions like, “how will you make money?’ and, “Why wouldn’t you wait until you had a better job lined up?’ are coming to us from Christians. Where is your faith? Do you honestly believe that when Jesus says He will take care of your every need, that you will starve somewhere on a street corner because you took a leap of faith? Modern day American Christians have so little faith that it’s embarrassing. To start out on a new chapter you have to get all your funding in advance, and take as much risk out of every step of life as possible. Where does Christ preach that? All I’ve heard Christ say about that in the Bible, is when he told people to NOT store up wealth, to give up ALL their possessions, to LOVE people who wanted to kill them, and to LIVE without any worries. To hold up our little step to the teachings of Jesus makes it look like a walk in the park, and yet so many people are wondering why on earth we wouldn’t have done things ‘smarter’. [I’d like to apologize for this little rant, but it is indeed a confession of what’s on my heart.]
As for us, we will be fine. What step is God asking you to make, and why are you so scared to take it?
Well, I guess it’s time to spread the news…we’re having another baby! Just when you thought 5 Latulippes were enough, we’ve got baby #4 on the way. Many thoughts have gone through our minds over the last few weeks, but most of them joyful and grateful that God chose to bless us once again.
No, we were not planning on this, nor did we think it possible, but God always has a way of surprising us with His plans. It’s funny to think that we just got done getting rid of all our baby stuff around the house, moving into a smaller (2 bedroom) apartment, and a smaller (5 seat) car. It always seems that when we make our plans for life, God has something else (and better) in store.
Right now, we are looking towards a due date of 7/17/11 for the newest in our tribe. Nicole isn’t entirely excited about being 9 months pregnant in the heat of an Arizonan summer, but is excited none the less.
We are a bit concerned about how to get all the preparations ready for a baby, since we just downsized and have no insurance for Nicole to speak of. We do ask for your prayers, as we are not entirely sure how we will be able to do any of this, but we also know beyond doubt that all things are possible through Christ and that all things will work together for the good!
So my wife and I decided that we were going to pack up our home and move into an apartment that my parents own about a month ago. Nicole and I don’t make rash decisions as a team, we tend to pray, discuss, sleep-on, and contemplate ideas like this fully. The truth is that Nicole and I both fully felt that God was leading us to pack up and move to get out of the house. The idea has been to sell our inexpensive (less than 100K) home and get back into renting so that we are more flexible and aren’t faced with a 45 minute commute two times a day with multiple vehicles.
Needless to say, we’ve already moved out and are plugged into my parents’ apartment. We have known this whole time that the market for real estate is extremely poor and folks everywhere are upside down on their mortgages, but we figured we couldn’t be, because we purchased the home for so little 6 years ago. This week came with some harsh realities. After speaking with some friends from church who have been in local realty for quite a while, we found that our home would most likely appraise for MAYBE 55K less that we owe on it. Wow. Didn’t really expect that one coming. We knew it would be a miracle but we thought that the only properties that were losing value were the ones that were inflated to begin with.
So, we have a few choices:
1) We can put the house on the market for way more than it’s worth. If by some miracle it did get a buyer, they would have to get an appraisal and they would face the same harsh reality we have and the sale would be lost.
2) Short Sale. This really would be almost impossible for us. we’ve worked hard at keeping current on our mortgage, which in a short sale is a minus…the bank wants to see that you really cannot afford squat.
3) Deed in lieu of foreclosure. This one is tough because I feel we need to make good on our debt. This would entail just giving the bank our home back. We would get a major hit to our credit (credit=crap anyways, plus we don’t use credit to buy anymore, thanks Ramsey) and not be able to buy a home for at least 18 months.
4) Move back into the house and stay there for however long it takes to get the economy back up and real estate climbing. This is the least risky, and yet the most bothersome to me. Somehow we felt like God was getting us ready for something and I feel that moving back in would just be a lack of faith. I rarely if ever see God using people who play it safe and are afraid to take risks. Jesus told people to sell or leave their possessions. I cannot think of a time in scripture where He said to play it safe, can you?
That’s it. That’s what we are facing. Your thoughts, comments, prayers…